Gabriel Lowrie and Kiran Box know more than a Consultant Paediatric Neurologist.

Kiran Box being the more gifted of the two as she apparently has psychic powers, she’s wasted as a Service Manager, she could use her psychic powers and extensive knowledge of paediatric neurology to help so many children.

Again, Gabriel Lowrie should use his extensive knowledge of paediatric neurology to help children instead of using his position as a senior practitioner in assessment and intervention and supervisor to newly qualified social workers to have fun with newly qualified social workers.

Two of my children had been seeing a Consultant Paediatric Neurologist at GOSH for almost a decade.

They both have many neurological signs indicitive of an upper motor neuron disorder. They have been given a provisional diagnosis before, which was then decided it might not be that, so further tests were required to in effect ‘label’ them with a named disorder.

With one of my children the neurologist was torn between the disorder she named it as or mild Cerebral Palsy.

We are talking about signs such as hyperreflexia, pes cavus, toe walking in child caused by something wrong in the ankle reflexes causing child to nee foot splints for a year, both Gabriel Lowrie and Kiran Box with their extensive knowledge of neurology will be able to explain better than I can.

So because there was no diagnosis at that time, Gabriel Lowrie decided there was nothing wrong with them and i’d made it all up. He even mentioned, I believe it was either on the social workers bit for the ICPC or the Section 47 report that i’d managed to get the GP to put the diagnosis on the children’s medical notes. Seriously, he said that. Despite the fact the diagnosis was on the notes because a Consultant Paediatric Neurologist gave them the diagnosis.

He refused to contact the Consultant Paediatric Neurologist.

One of my children had to wear foot splints for a year. These are things made out of metal, they have a metal bit which goes under the foot and up to below the knee to keep the ankle at 90 degrees so the child cannot walk on tip toes. A child wearing foot splints struggles with stairs for obvious reasons. The physio who gave the splints to my child wrote in my childs physio notes that I was to contact the school for a lift pass. Which I did and a lift pass was given because you didn’t need to be a doctor to realise that my child was unable to walk up and down stairs with the foot splints on.

In either the social workers notes for the ICPC or the Section 47 report written by Gabriel Lowrie, he put down that I made the school give child a lift pass even though there was nothing wrong with them as his narrative was that i’d been fabricating illnesses. Despite an entry on a paediatric physiotherapists notes that she’d told me to ask for a lift pass as child could not manage stairs with foot splints on.

So with all that evidence, a decade worth of Consultant Paediatric Neurologist notes, the children still being under investigation, foot splints, years worth of physiotherapy for both, occupational therapy for both, Gabriel Lowrie put on the Section 47 report, and the social worker notes for the ICPC that I had been fabricating illnesses in the children.

Easily disproven, really easily disproven with the clinic notes. Which I took to the ICPC with the intention of showing them to the Independent Child Protection Co-Ordinator Kiran Box. Kiran Box stated when I went to get them out of my bag “I don’t want to see any of your so called evidence”. Kiran Box did not want to see evidence that proved that I had not fabricated anything, that both the children in question suffered from upper motor neuron disorders and suffered from pain, movement problems, spasticity, and poor balance.

Instead she decided that i’d fabricated it all, that I was not allowed to seek any medical treatment for them, that if I told them there was anything wrong with them, or condoned them saying it, that I could lose them.

Gabriel Lowrie’s incompetence and arrogance at running with the fabricated illness narrative he’d totally made up and Kiran Box refusing to allow medical evidence disproving what Gabriel Lowrie was saying almost killed one of my children.

Both children had to suffer almost a year of being told repeatedly by various social workers, Gabriel Lowrie and Heidi Hibbett, who both appeared to get a kick out of it, that they had nothing wrong with them, despite my children’s protestations. They would cry, scream, be distressed, be made to feel absolutely worthless and ‘like we are nothing to them’ because they would describe their lived experiences of being in their own bodies and Gabriel Lowrie and Heidi Hibbett would torture them by telling them they are wrong and they are only saying that because I told them they have something wrong when they don’t and that I made it all up.

So before the RCPC in December 2018 I decided I wasn’t going to let my children continue to be tortured in this way so covered all my bases. I wrote out a detailed timeline and put in there all of the medical information, together with excerpts from the letters from the Consultant Paediatric Neurologist, and her contact details and asked Heidi Hibbett to give it to Kiran Box to read before the meeting.

Heidi Hibbett did do this. On the morning of the meeting, when myself and my husband went in to see Kiran Box before the meeting started, she held up the notes i’d made for her and said “I didn’t read it because it talks about medical stuff” and tossed it aside with a smug look on her face while grinning.

So she just threw it away as if it were trash.

So things carried on as before, with more accusations regarding myself fabricating illnesses etc. Kiran’s actions forced my children to undergo more torture at the hands of Heidi Hibbett for another 4 months, culminating in one of my children barricading themselves in their room when Heidi visited, screaming and screaming so much our neighbour actually later told us she thought she should call the police as she felt the screaming was so intense and so long that a child was in danger, which actually was true, Heidi was there and had already harmed my children immensely and was attempting to do so again. Child ended up self harming badly. Child told me they had considered jumping out of their bedroom window onto hard concrete, which would have likely either killed them or given them life changing injuries, to escape Heidi Hibbett.

Child was so traumatised by months of being told there was nothing wrong with them, amongst other untrue things about themselves that Gabriel Lowrie had invented, such as they had no friends, they attempted suicide.

If Kiran Box had read that document and actually fact checked what was being said, she could have stopped my children being tortured and actually got them some help.

Of course that is if she was telling the truth about not reading it, she isn’t someone with integrity and ethics, so it is possible she read it and realised it meant that she’d been part of harming 4 children by putting them on a child protection plan when it wasn’t necessary and being in part responsible for them being tortured by not allowing me to hand her clinic letters in the ICPC, and decided that it would make her look bad so decided just to say she didn’t read it. With Kiran Box it could go either way, she really is that disgraceful.

Essex County Council are in possession of all the evidence as i’ve described above, it’s never been used as they refused to investigate using 6 different made up excuses, including the monitoring officer, Paul Turner, being complicit in the last excuse.

So what did Essex Children’s Services do? They promoted Kiran Box to service manager. Someone who is personally responsible by her malpractice in causing extensive harm to my children, got a promotion out of it.

I would also be extremely shocked if Gabriel Lowrie hadn’t received a promotion to line manager as well.

That is how children’s services roll.

There is even more to do with Gabriel Lowrie and Kiran Box which I will write another post about.