Gavin Jones you’ve been gone too long
It’s now been almost three months since he deactivated his Twitter account.
His username is Gibsongav, well that was his username.
All because he liked one of my tweets and when I said that deeply upset me he blocked me, then deactivated his account.
I found his actions deeply upsetting, the liking of my tweet, and then him taking steps, major steps, to remove himself from social media instead of giving me an explanation.
The tweet in question had a link to a blog post in it where Heidi HIbbett had forced me to disclose childhood sexual abuse in front of my child, the tweet made reference to this and how disgusting it was, I got PTSD from how traumatising the incident was.
That is what Gavin Jones liked, he liked that one of his employees gave me PTSD and then some more of his employees refused to investigate it.
Hence why it was deeply upsetting, i’m still struggling not to cry while typing this.
Correction, I lost the struggle and i’m crying, both over being forced to make a disclosure like that with a child present and then the CEO of ECC liking that it happened to me.
I wrote an open letter to him detailing how much his actions had harmed me, all over my blog and on Twitter I was desperate for an explanation from him.
I received silence instead.
He’s clearly not sorry that he upset me, he’s clearly not sorry that it happened to me in the first place. Though that is evident from the fact his employees were the ones who did it to me and then refused to investigate.
I’m still struggling with what he did even two months later. His actions were just so cold.
I was so desperate for an explanation that I was forever checking my messages and everytime my phone rang I was hoping it was him. I was checking both my real email and the email address that I have put on here constantly just hoping for something, anything.
That was two months ago, and absolutely nothing.
Gavin Jones is living his best life on LinkedIn though, he deactivated his twitter, and I strongly suspect he’s reactivated it a few times just so it doesn’t get permanently deleted,
As long as he can still get the likes somewhere, he does not care.
I’m an utter nobody as far as Gavin Jones is concerned, i’m worthless and absolutely nothing in his eyes.
He likes to think he’s ‘non-conformist’, that is utter rubbish. All he is doing is saving money and sucking up to the members, he is no different to anyone else in a position of power, his first and only priority is himself. Screw the residents, he will use his power to protect himself, as what happened when I contacted him over a year ago asking for help, got ignored, which means he was happy with how my children were treated and cares not that one of my children tried to kill themselves.
The only way he would care about someone like me and a family like mine, is if we were in a position of power, which we are not and never will be.
He runs ECC so people like us don’t have power, we don’t have a voice, screw the adults, he makes sure that children don’t have a voice.
A year of my children telling social workers what they needed, a year of them telling social workers that they had been seriously abused by a social worker, did anyone listen? No.
Even when it led to a suicide attempt and my child was shouting the reason why to anyone within a 5 mile radius, nobody listened.
In fact Gavin Jones at that point was actively making sure that the incidents that led to my child’s suicide attempt would not be investigated, I wrote and asked him for help, he ignored me.
He’s not a non-conformist, he’s the same power hungry type of person as everyone else in a position of power such as him.
He says the same kind of “I’m someone who cares” kind of rubbish as everyone else like him says while actively harming anyone who ever approaches him for help.
He does not care about anyone but himself, he cares about the members solely because they have the power to sack him. He cares about others at ECC in a position of power because they will help him stay in his role and he thrives on all the likes and people telling him he’s wonderful.
He’s just someone who is good at lying and saving money by cutting services.
He says that everything he does is for the residents, but they are just words, his actions show that he is happy for his employees to abuse the most vulnerable.
He himself is more than happy to do what he did to me without a second thought.
He is probably angry at me because he took his Twitter down, it won’t be his fault, it will be mine, people like him never accept fault, they never apologise, he has likely never said sorry in his life and meant it.
It may not sound like a lot what he did, but it was the last in a long line of horrific actions against my children, and myself, and the fact that he liked that tweet and felt I didn’t even deserve an explanation has been absolutely devastating, I imagine he is laughing at me for it all.
I’m stopping now because i’m crying.
I may sound pathetic, but I want people to see the truth, how I feel, what he did, and that his response was to run away instead of standing tall and taking accountability for his actions.
That is what the whole of ECC do, nobody will take accountability for their actions, it’s all about how they look.
As long as Gavin Jones is still getting praised by everyone and getting all that money, his life is good, he is happy, and he doesn’t, and never will, give a shit about the vulnerable in Essex.
Will he be back on Twitter?
No idea, on LinkedIn he hasn’t mentioned his Twitter at all, but has used the account for Twitter type things, like posting links to songs he has made.
I think the only explanation i’ll ever get is the one I know is true, Gavin Jones only cares about those who he sees as his equals, i’m just a vulnerable woman who doesn’t even come close to someone who he deems worthy of his time or thoughts. In his view i’m trash, a problem, i’m not worthy of anything.
That is how he has treated me and made me feel.
I wish I could stop being upset over what he did, it’s all the questions I had over why he liked the tweet that is so upsetting and that I cannot get over.
It is what it is I guess.
This is what he did
It says a lot about the type of person he really is, who sees those who are vulnerable and need support as trash because he has nothing to gain from helping them.