Heidi Hibbett Overview

Heidi Hibbett was a social worker in the Family Support and Protection bit in Harlow, Essex.

Her manager was Jo Prosser.

Some of what i’m about to write will be facts, some will be my opinions. It’s all either information that Heidi told me directly or that she has shared publicly.

Any other information i’ve received about Heidi I will not be publishing, not because I don’t believe it, but because it’s third hand. If that information is to be believed, Heidi is not well liked outside of a professional setting either.

Heidi is short, really short, she’s about 4ft 10in tall and is slightly overweight. She will be 40 later this year.

She kept on dropping the fact that she has a much younger boyfriend into conversations when there was absolutely no need for that, it was really bizarre.

She told my mum she had a 3 year old daughter, who would now be six, she told me she had a condition which means she has extensive scarring and has gynaecological problems, she said the name but I just wanted her to stop talking as I really do not want to hear about some professionals gynaecological problems, it was all pretty gross and crossed a line.

She also pretended to be pregnant, not verbally, but patting and caressing her stomach in the way pregnant women do. We’ve all seen it, we all know what it looks like, she did that, she wasn’t pregnant.

Heidi is also a compulsive liar, so I wouldn’t be shocked if none of the above is true. The boyfriend is, they have been together since August 2017. I wouldn’t put it past her to lie about having a child, I also wouldn’t put it past her to lie about whatever gynae scarring thing she was talking about.

She did post her postcode publicly, it’s a rural area and covers very few houses, it is a REALLY expensive area, way beyond what her wages would cover. I have no idea if she lives with her younger boyfriend or how she came to live in such an expensive place. I will never ever disclose the postcode she posted publicly to anyone ever. I do think that Essex County Council should educate their social workers on social media.

That said I was thrilled to find out where Heidi lives. I was, and still am, absolutely terrified of bumping into Heidi, it was always at the back of my mind as it would be absolutely terrible for my children. Now knowing roughly where she lives I know that we are relatively safe. I now know the area to avoid, just that whole area completely, and places surrounding it. Before I was scared if we were out and about somewhere, now I know that as long as we avoid the whole area and nearby places where Heidi lives, we should be relatively safe from her. It did give me peace of mind.

I found Heidi’s profile from Gabriel Lowrie’s facebook profile. At that time her facebook profile had her name in it, she then changed it a few times but all that happens is that when you go back to the page you just see a new name. I did not put any effort into it.

I haven’t been on extensive social media stalking frenzy, all the information regarding Heidi that i’ve gotten from social media took about 5 minutes because she is friends with Gabriel Lowrie.

It’s why I don’t attempt to hide who I am on social media, it’s pointless, it really is. You find one social worker and in effect you find them all. Though obviously what is posted for the public to see is also important, when Heidi posted her postcode, it was set to public.

Heidi comes across as having issues with her height, I believe she is jealous of me because of how tall I am, and also she does have a weight problem, so there is that as well. She honestly comes across as really insecure, I would suspect she probably has never gone a day in her life without a man, it’s probably a need to make her feel wanted.

All I know is that she hated me. I believe she also hated my children because they didn’t do what she wanted them to. I know she shouted at them, belittled them, and was basically a monster to them. I hope her own child, if indeed the child exists, fairs better than mine did with Heidi, though I cannot imagine that happening.

Heidi is the type of person you wish couldn’t have children, because she shouldn’t be around them in any capacity. She would purposefully make my child cry, and then carry on shouting at them, Heidi does not have a compassionate bone in her body, she is as hard as nails, she lacks even the basic level of empathy.

She is also a trained counsellor, probably gave that up due to people not wanting to be anywhere near her.

In her personal life she falls out with people an awful lot.

She has a fake persona, she is an absolute fake, she pretends to be nice while in reality she is a horrible, terrible person, I am going to take a guess that she falls out with people when she let’s the horrible, terrible, person she is slip out from her nice person facade.

She drove one of my children to attempt suicide, Heidi Hibbett bullied a vulnerable child so badly that they ended up attempting suicide. She is the monster that children are warned about.

She judges everyone else, but from personal experience, what i’ve found out through social media, and what i’ve been told, she is an absolute trainwreck.

How do you know Heidi Hibbett is lying? She opens her mouth.

That sums her up really, she will lie about anything and everything to protect herself with her fake nice person act, she really is a piece of work.

I don’t understand the body insecurity issues, tall, short, fat, thin, you only have one body so you may as well accept it, Heidi doesn’t and is jealous of others.

Jealousy is one thing, but when a service user can tell you are jealous, that is not a good thing.

As a social worker Heidi should be trusted. I’m sitting here wondering if the daughter she told my mum she has actually exists. It’s not her boyfriends child as the child would have been two years old when they got together. So it would have been from her previous relationship. I know the details, but I feel immensely bad for anyone who has been involved with Heidi, so I won’t go into details.

She just comes across as horribly bitter, she has no redeeming features.

I’m not just saying this because she almost killed my child, but my children’s other experiences with her, my experiences with her, my mothers experiences with her, my husbands experiences with her, were all terrible, with everyone saying what a terrible person she is.

Not to mention other professionals, two of whom reported her based on what my children told them Heidi had done.

I do have to say that the social media information was correct as of over a year ago I think it is now. She may have moved from the expensive rural place by now. I honestly haven’t got a clue as looking at social workers social media is not something I want to waste my time doing so I blocked all of them I knew ages ago.

This part of my life is over which is why this is taking so long to do, whatever Heidi is doing now, both in her personal and professional life, I just hope it doesn’t involve children. I am desperately hoping that her daughter is just another one of Heidi’s lies and doesn’t exist, I wouldn’t wish Heidi as a mother on any child.

I have tried to be non biased here, but she almost killed one of my children, so that is incredibly hard to do.

So Heidi isn’t a good person, she’s bitter, jealous, angry, fake, and you cannot believe a word she says. These are negative qualities that are found both in her personal and professional lives.

I do have more to add to this post, i’m just really busy at the moment.

I have worked with many professionals, some I have worked with for many years. There is always a line that is never crossed. In some cases professionals do disclose personal information when it is helpful, or they are trying to make a point. I have never seen that line crossed as much as Heidi crossed it. She totally smashed the boundary between a professional and service user, especially by talking about her gynaecological problems, if they even exist. Then there is her boyfriend, again and again, talking about her much younger boyfriend. I am unsure if she was showing off or trying to make me jealous or whatever, it doesn’t make any sense at all to me. I’m surprised she didn’t brag about her expensive house. There are literally only a handful of homes in her postcode and they all appear to be worth close to a million pounds.

Why would you show off or try and make someone jealous because you have a younger boyfriend? Who would care about that? Why would you expect someone to care? It’s really weird, she is really weird.

I’m just grateful she saved me from hearing details of her sex life, given the amount of oversharing she did, that wouldn’t surprise me if she did talk about those kind of things to service users.

She did talk to my children about how pretty she is though, they disagreed. She told them her glasses were designer and really suited her, they laughed at her for that one as she looked stupid in them.

Adenomyosis, I think that is what she told me was wrong with her. I had to google to find it. It wasn’t endometriosis as I would have recognised that as I know people with that. I cannot remember the exact details of her symptoms, this is solely because it was a conversation you really do not want to have, it made me feel incredibly uncomfortable that she had crossed that line.

I’ll type more later.

I do know the boyfriend was real, whether or not he is younger than Heidi is hard to tell from just his photo and the way he looks.

There was absolutely nothing on Heidi’s social media regarding a child, no photos, no mention, nothing. Not even anything about needing a babysitter or anything. She has even undertaken foreign trips with no child with her, she climbed Mount Kilimanjaro in 2018, her ‘daughter’ would not have been able to go on that for obvious reasons.

Hence why i’m super suspicious about her existence given the extensive nature of Heidi’s lies.

There was also the time when Heidi told me that I should join Younique as her ‘friend’ sells it and makes a lot of money. Younique is an MLM, 99.9% of people in MLM’s lose money. The products are always utterly rubbish and super expensive, and MLM’s are predatory, in my opinion they should be illegal. Those in MLM’s are always looking for people to recruit, I have always wondered if this ‘friend’ of Heidi’s was actually Heidi, and she isn’t beneath attempting to recruit vulnerable service users into her downline.

That said, I saw no evidence that Heidi was selling Younique, but she could have set up a separate profile and page to do so, a lot of MLM victims do that.

I am incredibly anti-mlm, I think MLM’s are absolutely disgusting, all those women who brag about making money are actually lying, having been told to do so by their uplines, fake it until you make it. Except they never make it because the market is saturated, and the products are absolute rubbish. Younique’s products are worse than own brand products you can buy in stores, and can be up to ten times the price.

I’ve always wondered that though, if Heidi was the ‘friend’ who sells Younique and makes a lot of money from it which is why she urged me to think about joining as she would make money from someone joining under her.

I don’t know, i’m just thinking out loud.

None of the things she told me, including what she told my Mum is any of my business.

Why would I want to know that she has scarring on her reproductive organs? She went into detail about it, then shortly afterwards was when she was patting and caressing her stomach as a pregnant woman does. She did have a belly but i’m guessing that is just the way she carries her extra weight.

Why did she keep going on about her younger boyfriend? Does she think that every woman doesn’t feel complete without a man, and that a younger man is what every single woman aspires to? She certainly seemed proud of herself, like it was some big achievement.

Heidi was someone who had a huge amount of power over my family so it’s not as if I could tell her to stop telling me all these things, she had a captive audience, albeit one who was completely grossed out.

I have no idea if any of what she said is true, I know the boyfriend was real, but I have no idea if he is younger than her, or if he is whether he is ‘much younger’ like she stated, which in my view would be about 7 or 8 years younger, or if he’s 6 months younger. She linked to his facebook profile from hers with one of those things that said they had been together since August 2017. I did look at his facebook but you absolutely cannot take any kind of guess as to how old he is because his face is mostly covered by a huge beard.

Heidi just cannot keep her mouth shut, like when she told my mum I was sexually abused, which was my personal information, she had no right to say that. It was really really unpleasant.

At one point I had to tell her to come inside the house as she was talking about my children being on a child protection plan on my doorstep in a really loud voice, I believe this was on purpose so the neighbours could hear.

On another occasion she delivered something to my home, I wasn’t in but one of my children was under strict instructions not to answer the door. Heidi made a phonecall and left a voicemail on my phone right outside of my house within earshot of the neighbours that stated exactly what was in the envelope, it was the child protection conference notes.

I’ll end this post by reiterating that I hope she made up that she has a daughter because that child being real does not bear thinking about. Given that she happily bullied my children and caused one of them to attempt suicide, I dread to think what she would be capable of behind closed doors.

That sums up Heidi Hibbett, she is as unpleasant as she sounds.