Gabriel Lowrie 2026

Gabriel Lowrie is a manager working in assessment and intervention as a social worker in Harlow.

He was a senior practitioner but Kiran Box, his service manager, promoted him to manager.

I was sent a list of every single social worker in children’s and families at Essex County Council, along with their job titles and email addresses. Hence why I know about the promotion.

This update is written a few years later and a couple of weeks after I saw Gabriel Lowrie somewhere he was not expecting me to be. I look good don’t I? I did well didn’t I? Your reaction on seeing me did give me mixed feelings. The obvious, I thought it was funny, but also there was a bit of fear there. I may live in a house full of autistics but i’m not one, I am very apt at reading body language., along with the knowledge that you know where I live.

This is your biggest issue Gabe, you are a misogynist. You are also working in a profession where you criiticise others parenting and childhoods, so lets talk a bit about yours and the long lasting effects that has had on your life and the life of your sibling. I’m not even going to pretend I care about you and your sibling, I do not. It’s just that between the 2 of you there are 4 children involved. I reported your sister to children’s social services a few years ago, I included a video that your Sister herself posted on her Instagram account. You are friends with her on there so you would have seen it as well. I was in pieces.]

Given that was before her second child was even conceived it’s clear they took no notice of my complaint, at that time. You saw that video, you let that carry on, despite your position meaning you should have done what I did, I only had the names of all involved and a rough location. It was on her stories and it was too big to attach to the SCC reporting system. I described what i’d seen in the video and heard no more.

You call yourself a child protection social worker? Couldn’t even be bothered to protect your own blood could you? I’m referring to the second time, though that also works for the first time you failed to protect the same child, round about the time you were tearing my family apart that child was suffering, you did nothing then either.

I am angry about it, very angry about it, your whole family has failed that child. We both know how you and your sibling are trauma bonded but you have been an adult through all of this, a social worker to boot, yet i’m the one who tried to do something? Albeit not about the previous abuse and neglect of the child, but when I saw something, I tried to do something. Everything i’m about to publish I found years ago. Didn’t save it, just found it again within 10 seconds. Anyone can find it, it’s public, not private, because the author made it public and i’m not the author, it’s out there, it shouldn’t be, but some people are just terrible people.

Before I get started Gabe, RIP to your Facebook page. I’m guessing you blamed me for that. Understandable, you aren’t smart, which is why your Facebook page got hacked. Actually that doesn’t even count as not smart, that counts as reckless and completely stupid. However it was done, via Facebook directly, or more likely the gmail address you used to sign up, it doesn’t matter, it’s still completely stupid for a man in your position. They couldn’t have done it without you being completely stupid and giving them your password, either to you gmail account or to your facebook. Then they just reset your Facebook password make some of your posts public, as well as your friends list and then it’s all about trying to scam those on your friends list. Probably with saying you are in trouble in a foreign country and desperately need money and can the person send money. Social workers shouldn’t be that stupid that they fall for that. It’s ridiculous. They would have had access to all of your messenger messages as well. Yeah, not good.

Anyway, back to the alcoholism that runs through your family. Your father is an alcoholic. Some say alcoholism is genetic. I don’t believe it is as such. Apparently there are some new takes on why children of alcoholics end up being alcoholics themselves. My biological Father was an alcoholic. He fathered 4 children by 3 very different women. Research shows that emotional neglect in the baby stage, and then early childhood changes your brain chemistry. It’s changed in such a way that the child grows up and tries to replace what is missing in their brain chemistry with substances, whether that is alcohol or drugs. The cycle then repeats.

Being taken away from a parent also changes brain chemistry. My biological Father was given up for adoption at birth. His adoptive parents then went into a room full of babies and picked which one they wanted, which was my Father. By all accounts his adoptive parents were wonderful people, I can’t say, they died before I was born, the damage was already done though. Hence why they could pick. 1945 and with husbands coming home from the war some found their wives pregnant. My Father was one of those babies.

So my biological Father was a waste of space. My mum kicked him out when I was 15 months old. My brother and myself never suffered from neglect because my Father just was never there. Unlike you Gabe, we had a wonderful childhood. My younger two brothers also never had our Father in their lives, no neglect or abuse because they were loved by their mums.

None of us are alcoholics.

This is a blog written by Gabriel Lowries sister. It is about alcoholism and drug addiction, so a trigger warning for thems that need it.

https://theafterparty.home.blog/author/gracelowrie87

I found this when I started blogging and it’s remained public ever since. It’s still easily findable for anyone, including the children involved.

His sister was an alcoholic and drug addict. She neglected her daughter to the point that if her parents hadn’t have stepped in her daughter would have been taken to into care, to be fair, that likely would have worked out better for her.

I do also see some evidence of NPD in his sister which would tie in with neglect in her childhood. Excerpt from the blog:

he simple truth is that if it wernt for my parents I would have had very little and as a result I have no doubt that I would have not been able to financially manage as a mother and that could have catostrophically resulted in her being taken from me. Yes my daughter was always washed and clothed but I never had money to buy food, I didnt pay bills, all my earnings went on drink and at the time I just couldnt see it and neither could anyone else (apart from family and close friends) because I wouldn’t allow them to.

This is what really chilled me when I found that instagram video. There is nothing in that paragraph that shows a mother who puts her childs needs first. Money to buy things is not a top priority for a child. They need love, they need a parent who is going to be there for them when they need them. To make sure that all of their emotional needs are met. I grew up with no money, I forget that though, all my emotional needs were met and I have never doubted I was loved. I’m not just talking loved, I was cherished, my needs were put above my parents needs. When I say parents I mean my Mum and Dad, not my biological father. My mum failed on her first pick for the father of her children, but knocked it out of the park on her second pick.

My mind just wandered a bit thinking of my parents and my childhood. While my heart got ripped out of my chest when my Dad died when I was 20, I would rather have only had up until then with my Dad than had the however old I was when my biological father died. I think I was in my 30’s, don’t know, don’t care, I know it was 3 years after he died before I found out, i’m still waiting to give a shit.

At the point his sister was neglecting her daughter Gabe was a social worker at Essex County Council. At the point THAT video was posted on his sisters instagram stories Gabe was a social work manager at Essex County Council. He did nothing. His sister got married, unsure if she is divorced yet, but they split about 3 months after the wedding. “Due to circumstances beyond our control”. I cried when I read that and exhaled a breath i’d been holding since I saw that video.

It ain’t great, she’s got a glass in every photo, is it non alcoholic? who knows. Actually I don’t care. Any damage is already done. I reported when I saw something, family members should be looking out for the kid, not me. She was failed by those who were meant to protect her, including someone who is a social worker.

Can her future be changed before it happens? The evidence as to what her life will look like in a few years is likely already written, but i’m rooting for her. Her mother only has enablers in her life and so the kid has no decent role models. I just hope the kid breaks the trend

Gabriel Lowrie’s sister is still drinking. Just listened to her saying that her and a friend had drunk 2 bottles of wine when they were partying at the weekend, the friend corrected her and said it was 2 bottles each.

Gabriel Lowrie’s sister is speaker 1:

Yeah i’m out. I can’t be snarking when I know there are two kids with an alcoholic mother who has confessed in the past to spending all of her money on alcohol. Gabriel Lowrie is complicit in this. Both of those kids will be suffering neglect, especially the youngest as he cannot look after himself due to his young age. There is neglect happening and Gabriel Lowrie knows about it. I am horrified.

I rarely regret blog posts, I regret this. I had planned out how this update was going to go, but I always fact check and that’s how I found out an alcoholic is, well an alcoholic. Now i’m devastated and distressed, I guess at least someone is regarding those two kids even though it’s someone who cannot do anything about it. This is horrific.

Gabe, if you ever see me again, do not react, do not look at me , let alone look at me 4 times. I was deep in conversation i never would have noticed you, I only noticed you because of the exaggerated way you kept on looking at me, i’m guessing to check if it was actually me. You blend in, just a textbook scrawny man in his late 30’s, I wouldn’t notice you, whereas I stand out and i’m easily seen, from a distance. I never want to be in this position again, You are a terrible person, a really terrible person. I can’t help but wonder if you also suffer from generational emotional neglect. You clearly didn’t care enough about your niece to break the cycle, and now you have a nephew as well.

Are you drinking 2 bottles of wine in one go? Wouldn’t surprise me if the same cycle repeated itself with you and your two kids. I just hope their mother is a strong woman who puts a child’s needs above everything else, unlike you.

Your sister talks about how your niece can cook for herself and can also make breakfast for her young sibling. Given we are talking 2 bottles of wine in one sitting, the chances are that your sister isn’t always capable of feeding the younger child who is at an age where he is wholly dependent on a parent to provide him with everything he needs. Not just the physical things, the emotional side of things which he won’t be getting from a mother who drinks 2 bottles of wine at once. She’s fallen off the wagon, she couldn’t remember how much she’d drunk, I imagine the drinking is daily. I’m now writing this hoping Gabe reads it and get off his skinny arse and actually does something for once. It won’t happen, it just won’t. I’m not saying that in an attempt to goad Gabe into actually doing something to help his neice and nephew, i’m stating a fact.

It turns out she was only sober for 3 years, she of course makes out like she’s some kind of hero for doing that, In fact she clearly thinks she’s awesome for even doing the very basics of anything. Hence why I mentioned NPD before. To be fair NPD is down to neglectful and/or abusive parenting, so if she has NPD I guess it’s not her fault entirely it’s her parents, though it also shouldn’t be her children’s problem.

His sister is just a liar who cannot be trusted. This is from her blog:

I grew up in a non drinking family, neither of my parents drank alcohol, something that I always found very bizarre even from a young age. I always felt different, families went to the pub together, mum’s and dad’s and got drunk at family bbq’s and on Christmas day, mine didn’t. I don’t know why I had that perception of family life, maybe because it was because of the soap operas on television, everyone’s always in the pub, I just always felt like the odd one out and curious to why my parents didn’t drink and what it felt like to have it. Later I found out that my dad was a recovering alcoholic and he finally decided to get sober a few weeks before I was born. He has now been sober 31 years but alcohol still has a power over him, something which he can’t and never will be able to control.

This is from her recent podcast: She’s speaker 2.

The thing with addicts is they lie, they lie a lot, so two different versions of something isn’t unusual for an addict, hence why two different stories about her childhood.

She always makes out she’s the victim in everything, pretty standard for an alcoholic.

This is all pretty sickening, and I can’t do anything about it except hope those kids get some help to protect them.

I am incredibly concerned about those children, especially given the mothers previous admission of emotional neglect. Given it’s a single mother situation an alcoholic who will think nothing of drinking 2 bottles of wine in a day, will literally think nothing as she can’t even remember how much she drunk, which is insane, it’s even more concerning. It’s a dangerous amount of alcohol to consume. It’s more than the healthy limit for a week.

I can’t do anything, i’m an atheist so I can’t pray. I’m also a realist so I know there is no hero coming to help those kids. Alcoholism is a devastating illness, i’m not denying that, but that is why when there are kids are around there should be protection around them when their sole carer is in the grips of alcoholism and cannot protect them. I’d like to think that given she got dry once before she could do so again, but that really starts with admitting she has a problem and she doesn’t see that.

I’m done here, i’m done with this blog and I haven’t even got a clue what is below this as I actually couldn’t care less now as it was so long ago, but it happened, it will stay. I know my blogs have helped people, although i’ve never offered any advice to anyone who has contacted me because that is not my place. I’ll criticise in my writing, but never advise those who ask me for help. I haven’t got the skills.

This update was going to be witty and sarcastic. Instead it turned into, well this. Nothing will change then, not when Gabe the Terrible is one of the people who should be protecting those children. Gabe will have seen every single piece of evidence i’ve put here, actually he will know the exact circumstances those kids are living in. Another shocking thing is that all of this is public, not just public, but the mother is seeking fame. Yeah i’ve got two blogs, but i’m anonymous and a nobody, the last thing i’d ever want is to be famous so I will never understand why some people try to become famous, and fail because they have no talent.

As i’ve said, not idea what I wrote years ago under this bit, it will all be true and based on publicly available information, mostly.

I need to update this more, especially as its one of my most searched posts. Looking at this post reminds me of a simpler time when I just put what was in my head into the keyboard.

Most of this post will be regarding my opinion of him based on facts. I will go into what he did, and didn’t do, in another post.

Gabriel Lowrie arrived at our home with Billie Faulkner who he introduced as a social worker, she wasn’t, she wasn’t yet registered. Gabriel Lowrie was Billie’s supervisor.

What I know is that Gabriel and Billie were involved with each other during September and October 2018. I have no idea if they are still together, I hope not, solely because Billie is a good person and deserves better. Gabriel has recently become a father to a baby boy, no idea when he would have been born but he will have been born by now. I have no idea if Billie is the mother to the child. Part of me hopes so, part of me, for Billie’s sake, hopes she’s well away from him. The best type of mother that the mother of Gabriel’s son could be is a single mother, hence why my reticence at not completely wanting Billie to not be the mother as I feel she would be a good mum.

They were flirting while trying to hide it. An incident where I heard giggling from outside, I initially thought someone was outside and drunk and there was a ‘shushing’ noise. It was like in movies when people are drunk and giggling and shushing each other to be quiet. In the ICPC on the 24th September 2018, they were playing footsie. To be exact, Gabriel Lowrie was rubbing his foot against Billie Lowrie’s ankle. Which is very professional.

In my opinion Gabriel Lowrie has poor self esteem, he is a people pleaser who wants everyone to like him. He is a coward.

He is very skinny, I can comment on this as i’ve seen a photo online of him naked. Different people have different body types. His Pinterest is or was open and he was all about getting muscles, so many different exercises for gaining muscles and other things to gain bulk.

His pinterest was how I found out he was going to be a father. Given the times, the baby must have been born by now. Something that shocked me was his absolute lack of knowledge regarding babies. There was something regarding feeding schedules for babies, how often they should feed, how many hours apart each feed should be.

The problem with that is that newborn babies cannot read so they cannot follow a schedule. They cry when they are hungry and that is how you know how it’s feeding time. With breastfeeding you can expect to have baby on the breast for most of the time in the early days. You cannot put a newborn on a schedule, it’s harmful.

I was shocked that he lacks even the most basic knowledge regarding babies.

One of my children discovered his facebook page in December 2019, a lot of it was public, and it was disgusting. I made a complaint to ECC, which was upheld, but no apology. Given that a lot of the content was sexual and he had told my children he thought that their Dad had sexually abused them, it was damaging to my children. One of them seriously self harmed as a result of what they saw. I had to further complain to the LGO just to get an apology from ECC.

I reported it to the social work regulator, SWE. The posts were 8 years old, but really really disturbing. One of the posts he used the homophobic slur “Tranny”, describing how he felt shortchanged after seeing a Tranny willy on Channel 4.

This was in November 2011.

Gabriel Lowrie left university in May/June 2011 and moved back into the family home.

Gabriel Lowrie told the regulator that his university housemates would regularly post things on his facebook to embarrass him, obviously Gabriel Lowrie was totally unaware you an delete content on social media, and that if your friends embarrass you in that way and you feel it is not acceptable, then better friends may be a wise choice.

It is clear that some of the posts on his facebook were made by others, it is clear which ones they are and which ones are made by him.

There are some posts that are clearly made by him. One of them involves the police being called being he was verbally abusive to a train conductor. Another involves him being a misogynist after seeing a woman walking home dressed as the joker in the morning and saying “Lad points for whoever stuck it in her”.

Another is the Tranny comment.

In his submission to SWE Gabriel Lowrie stated that he was at university in a house share with 4 other males until the end of November 2011, which conviently covered the time that post was made. His facebook page shows clearly that he actually left university and the house share in may/june 2011 and was living back in the family home hundreds of miles away from university in November 2011.

He lied because he’s a coward. He also stated that when the posts were made he was 18/19 and had just left home for the first time. Another lie, because he’s a coward. He was actually 21, in his third and final year at university, at the age when social workers usually start working. He had also gone abroad on many occasions with friends, at least 3 times. He was not someone who had just left home and was nervous and desperate to fit in, he was a grown man.

I’ve used the slur ‘Tranny’ before to describe someone who is transgender. I don’t think i’ve ever used it on social media just because by the time social media was a thing, the term was known to be offensive. Though it is certainly possible I have. When you know better you do better. I was ignorant and at some point someone has educated me regarding it being a slur and I have not used the word since. I’m not proud of myself for using the word, but as soon as I was educated regarding the word, I have not used it.

I am going to guess the same happened with Gabriel Lowrie, in the same way it’s likely happened to most people. He is a coward though, instead of admitting he used that slur, accepting he was wrong, and saying he was uneducated regarding the word, he made up that he was in the house share just long enough to conviently cover the time that post was made and claiming one of his housemates made the post. While his facebook showed clearly he had left the houseshare when he finished university, and moved back to the family home hundreds of miles away.

He is such a coward that instead of stating the truth, that he was ignorant and has since been educated and is horrified he ever used that word, he couldn’t admit it was him.

I’ll finish this later.

Gabriel Lowrie was born into a home with an alcoholic father, he was the second child, he has an older sibling. A baby/child who is neglected can suffer long lasting emotional damage. When a baby is born to an alcoholic parent there is usually some emotional neglect of the baby. This can leave long lasting damage to the child, leading to the child growing up and then neglecting their own children. A baby who was neglected from birth can look to alcohol and/or drugs to fill the emotional void they have over being neglected when younger.

We know that Gabriel Lowrie’s father is an alcoholic. This is fact from an eyewitness public account. I have spoken to a few psychiatrists and counsellors regarding the whole ‘alcoholism is inherited’ thing. My biological father was an alcoholic, I was still a baby when my mum kicked him out. I have an older full brother, I also have two half brothers from my biological father, they each have different mothers. One never met our father, and the other didn’t have our biological father in his life after he was a few months old.

None of us are alcoholics. We all drank a lot of alcohol in our teens and early twenties when we were out socialising, none of us ever drank at home. We all stopped drinking when we settled down and now only drink alcohol rarely